who's the one?

people always ask me, “sheemi..how do i know if he’s the one?”

so I say, you just do.

without a doubt, you just know. I can’t describe how it feels like, but you just know it. you can feel it in your heart and in your mind.

beware, if you have the slightest hesitation/doubt/turn-off about your partner, then don’t proceed.

i so believe that you need to KNOW that person first. please please please kawan dengan orang tu dulu. just friends. i know it's tempting to rush into a relationship, but that is like, the biggest mistake ever. this is common when you don't know what you want.

if he/she is the one for you, you won’t have any doubts or hesitations about that person. he/she is perfect to you that you don’t want to change a single thing about that person. even when he/she is 50 or 100 years old, he/she will still be perfect to you.

how can this happen? because you know this person so well, you've accepted his/her flaws. that is why the pre-relationship period is the most vital. you need to get to know the other person. in his or her truest form.



> back in the days...when were just friends :)


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